In case there are any other clumsy mamas that want to wear their babies, here are my best tips to make it safe for both of you (and your ego).
1) Wear baby on your back.
When he/she is on your back, you can see you feet. When you can see where you're stepping, you can make sure not to miss a step or a curb and go flying into the middle of the parking lot. I also find it way more comfortable.
2) Wear sensible shoes.
I wear flip-flips 9 months out of the year, but they really aren't too safe when you're wearing your baby. If I wear sneakers, I don't have to worry about them slipping off and causing a fall.
3) Get some help while you get baby on your back.
Or, alternately, make sure she has a safe place to land if something goes wrong. I've never dropped her as I've slung my daughter over my shoulder in my mei tai, but you never know. Usually when I'm out with my husband, he will spot me and make sure she is sitting comfortably. When I'm out alone, I stand with the car door open so the seat is right below her. The same goes for taking baby off your back - make sure you hold on to your baby and she has a soft place to fall, just in case.
I use a Babyhawk mei tai wrap - it's pretty easy to learn how to use and my daughter likes it. Below is my favorite video, and this is pretty much how I always wear my daughter. Good luck, and happy (safe) babywearing!
